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Child sexual abuse is the most under-reported of all crimes. When it is reported, it is the least acted upon of all crimes. When it is acted on, it is the least punished of all crimes. 

Ignorance of child sexual abuse has been and still is a principle factor inhibiting its prevention and prolonging the suffering of so many victims. 

If we are serious about protecting children from sexual abuse, we must all – parents, teachers and everyone in our communities – transform ourselves from passive observers to active participants in the protection of all children. Throwing our hands up in the air with resignation and feigning ignorance have not been effective and yet most of us continue to throw this issue into the “too hard basket”.

By writing ‘The Silent Crisis’, I wanted to help parents and others become aware of the potential dangers and to demonstrate that there are positive and simple things

we can all do to prevent child sexual abuse from occurring. Educating ourselves about child sexual abuse does not need to be a frightening endevour but instead, it can be a journey of empowerment and a way to protect our most precious children. One thing is for certain: worry, ignorance and denial are not effective strategies for protecting children.

My intention is for children to trust in you the parent, in themselves and in their instincts and in turn, to recognise the signs of potential danger and respond in the smartest and safest way possible. Children who have learnt to trust in their instincts and maintain a relaxed awareness are far better prepared for any danger they may encounter.

Additionally, when armed with appropriate information and an understanding that bonding and attachment are the foundations for protecting children from sexual abuse; parents and others who care for children can become more empowered to protect them by fostering closer more communicative, loving, fulfilling and trusting relationships.

Think of 'The Silent Crisis' not only as a guide to keeping your whole family safer but also as an opportunity to teach, connect with and get to know your children better.  The greatest safety tool you can equip them with is a healthy self-esteem and a loving supportive environment in which to grow.  

One child protected, loved and respected will not only improve the world we live in today but also the world of which they will be the stewards in the future.

Amanda Robinson
Author of 'The Silent Crisis'